The hubby man has been amazing at being a sounding board for me through this journey. I have talked this poor man’s ear off on more than one occasion. Especially over deep conversations that sound like I’m going back and forth until I figure things out. I’m sure he’s beyond confused, but he loves me enough to keep listening. While they aren’t problems he can fix, which I’m sure is infuriating to him on some level, he still gives me his undivided attention when I need to have some listen while I try to work it out.
Lately, he’s been listening to me go over things that come to me naturally. While for awhile everyone kept telling me it is my ability to care for others and me always to be of help to them, I thought, no that isn’t me. Yet, somewhere inside I knew better.
I absolutely love it. I love the fact that my friends trust me to help them with their manuscripts. It’s my favorite thing. I love long conversations with my sisters, even if I can’t help them solve the problem, I hope listening to them helps.
This is one of the things that come to me so often that I don’t even realize it. My hubby-man used to joke that I was a carebear. I would and still will always stop doing my thing to lend a helping hand if someone needs it. Doesn’t matter if it is for a quest on a game, helping them with a manuscript or even talking them through a really rough patch.
I love helping others. It’s something that brings me great joy and fulfillment in my life.
What are some of your natural abilities? What brings you joy?
Until next time, remember to L.O.L. (Live it, Own it, Love it) or it isn’t worth doing.